Someone who truly deserves you will be like looking for a needle in a haystack. There will be those who’ll measure up in many ways, but finding someone who really has your best interest at heart and is on par with you in all the ways that matter isn’t always easy. Because of this, sometimes we tend to hang on longer than we should when it’s just not right. It can be hard to see clearly when you’re in the midst of a relationship, and although that may be the case, if you’re aware of the red flags, maybe you can get out before it’s too late. Here are the 16 signs that the person you’re dating just doesn’t deserve you.
1. HE’S TOO FOCUSED ON HIMSELF.
It’s one thing to be self-absorbed, but it’s another thing when that self-absorption spills over into totally dominating the relationship. It’s not always about you, but it’s not always about him, either.
2. YOU CAUGHT HIM IN MORE THAN ONE LIE.
Lying is a big sign that you’re either dealing with a fraud or someone who’s just too weak to face you. It also says they don’t have a very high opinion of you.
3. HE PUTS OTHER PEOPLE BEFORE YOU.
It’s one thing if you’re equal in importance to their family and close friends, but you shouldn’t be second. No one should ever feel that they’re not a top priority for their partner.
4. YOU FEEL LIKE YOU’RE GIVING MORE THAN HE IS.
If there’s a big imbalance in how much they give and how you give, it simply means he’s not invested as much as you. You want someone who’s giving it his all and not being just half-assed about you or your relationship.
5. YOU FIND YOURSELF CHANGING WHO YOU ARE FOR HIM.
It’s normal to change a bit in a relationship, as a means to adapt, but you should never lose yourself completely. If your partner has forced you to change your values or opinions, run.
6. HE MAKES YOU DOUBT YOURSELF.
A partner is supposed to support you, so your doubts are limited. Instead, you often wonder what the hell you’re doing with your life, which is never a good sign.
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